KNOW THE ADVANTAGE OF HAVING MORE THAN ONE PARTNER

A relationship is often considered to be only between two people. But the truth of the matter is that this culture is now beginning to be questioned and scrutinized in detail as people search for their own methods of defining what love is.

One member of the TV show in England, Amy Hart, says she knows that her husband has secret love affairs outside of their marriage.

Mrs. Hart says that she believed that love is for two people but her husband broke that tradition.

These are just some of the examples that lead people to believe that being in a free marriage may make partners have the freedom to have extramarital affairs.

In free relationships, couples discuss and agree on their boundaries.

however, marriages considered monogamous, such matters are not negotiable.However, despite the fact that people often assume that they are in a monogamous marriage agreement, you will see that the parties prefer to have romantic relationships with outsiders rather than two people who have tied the knot.

"If you look at the different types of relationships that exist, 5 percent can be defined as having more than one partner," said Amy Muise, an assistant professor of psychology at York University in Toronto, Canada.

"In human life, 21 percent of people have been involved in love outside of marriage."However, in this period of the corona virus, people have had a difficult situation to meet their lovers outside their homes due to the measures taken by various countries to control the corona virus such as not being close to each other.

this step may force those who have love relationships outside their marriage to stay with their partners at home for a long period of time.

And also social psychology shows that there are reasons that make people believe extramarital relationships are beneficial.

In ancient times it is believed that people lived in small family groups together.

At that time when many men were believed to be hunters, they were faithful to their wives but when they have a child they look for another partner.

that style probably explains why men these days prefer relationships that leave them free.

.according to research conducted by psychologist Justin Lehmiller on human relationships, most men prefer to have more than one partner, 26 percent compared to 8 percent of women.

Right now, many marriages are in the state of having no love outside of marriage, although the reality is different, even if you refer to the Old Testament, there are many examples of people who married more than one wife.

But why do so many men seem to have extramarital affairs?

it is difficult to say without mentioning art, culture and so on.

"Often, when we were growing up our parents were married and we saw them in a monogamous marriage."

"Since people started taking pieces of land for themselves and claiming to be the owners, marriages were one of the ways to control property and own the family and from that time, marriage has started to be seen as a fundamental thing."

research shows that couples with different love interests are better off with more than one partner.

"In a relationship, there is often a difference of interest between two people, he said," Muise, an expert in relationship issues. "However, people with more than one partner may be more fulfilling."

In addition, it is said in one study, for people who wanted to have a free and successful relationship, they felt successful in fulfilling their needs.

"The good life of a romantic relationship with an outside partner makes a man feel that he is satisfied with his legal partner because suddenly the pressure for one person to fulfill everything to please his partner goes away", said Joel.

"When there is happiness in a romantic relationship, couples can communicate better," Joel said.

"But it's also difficult to fulfill a free relationship if you can't fulfill the terms you agreed to.

moreover, emotional satisfaction - feeling safe, and having closeness - seems to continue to increase over time. At the same time being free, feeling happy also decreases if it is a monogamous marriage.

"In the beginning life is sweet and full of love but there comes a time when you start to be predictable," said Rhonda Balzarini, a psychologist at the University of York.

Balzarini gives an example of a legal married wife who has many personal responsibilities, looking after the house and children, while the foreign wife often does not have these responsibilities and therefore will have more time to develop love relationships.